Not every man is a leader of men, But every man can and should lead himself.
And that starts with how you see yourself, both Internally and Externally, Inner World and Outer World.
That is entirely under your control. You want to save yourself, be a Hero and build yourself into one.
The wonderful thing about such a standard, it has no upper limit. You will never be fully satisfied with the progression of your mind and body.
But then you are not supposed to be either. Its an ideal, you train for it, but you don't reach it.
Train for something higher.
Train to be harder
Train to be better
Train be stronger
Be Your Own Hero.