Two detailed Logic Bulletins to help those who are on the shelf only US $ 34.99 (ordinarily US $59.99)
Life on the shelf.
The position of the Intimate Partner Secondary Source
Other commentators talk about the standard cycle of the narcissist being idealisation, then devaluation, then dis-engagement (or discard) and then hoovering. This is just one dynamic of many. None realise that there are many other dynamics and one in particular which is of considerable concern is in respect of those individuals who are Intimate Partner Secondary Sources (which includes Dirty Little Secrets) who are treated by the narcissist and ONLY the narcissist in a shelf manner.
Making sense of this interaction and also what is going to happen to you within the ´wheels within wheels´situation of a narcissist´s fuel matrix is not addressed elsewhere. For those of you who are in or believe you are in a shelf scenario, where you feel you are picked up and put down, treated like an afterthought, seen as a side piece, The Other Man or Woman, a mistress or booty call, this Logic Bulletin is absolutely for you.
This Logic Bulletin details a series of scenarios concerning you as an IPSS and the narcissist, including
What will happen to you? Will you always be treated in a shelf manner?
Will you become the Candidate IPSS and if so, in what circumstances?
Will you ever become the IPPS and if so, in what circumstances?
Why are you not becoming the Candidate IPSS?
Who else might be in the fuel matrix?
What is happening with you when there is an IPPS already in place?
What happens with you if the IPPS escapes?
What happens with you if the narcissist disengages from the IPPS?
Could there be other IPSS´in the picture? How to know and what this means?
What if there is no visible IPPS? Why are you not being made into the IPPS.
Through detailed scenarios set out over two audio files delivered by email, HG Tudor provides you with his accurate insight so you can understand shelf life so you can then make informed decisions with regard to your next steps and gain answers to everything you wanted to know about life on the shelf.
Life on the shelf is often difficult.
Knowing The Narcissist is the only place which explains this dynamic with accuracy.
You often find yourself isolated, unable to talk to others about the affair you are engaged with and if there are others you can speak to, they do not understand you are dealing with a narcissist.
A frequent issue is interpreting the narcissist´s behaviour towards you, when you are on the shelf to understand whether you are painted black or white. This Logic Bulletin finally gives you clarity and answers and also addresses what you can do to change your status.
In this comprehensive and hugely insightful THREE part Logic Bulletin you will be assisted with
What does it mean to be on the shelf and who does this apply to?
What causes you to be taken off the shelf?
What do you do which means the narcissist takes you off the shelf?
Why are you being kept on the shelf?
Ten detailed scenarios explaining the behaviour of the narcissist with regard to the secondary source so you KNOW if you are painted black or white.
Information which applies to anybody on the shelf, both Intimate and Non-Intimate Secondary Sources
Information which is specifically formulated for the Shelf IPSS, Shelf Dirty Little Secret or Candidate IPSS
What you can do to become painted white again
What governs the mind of the narcissist with regard to what makes you black or white
What factors affect you moving from black to white and white to black
Explanations with regard to the impact of your behaviour on the narcissist and vice versa
The options available to you when dealing with a narcissist when on the shelf.
This material is a necessity for anybody who is on the shelf with a narcissist, anybody who is in a relationship where they are having an affair with someone, where they are treated like a side piece or booty call. It is also advantageous for those of you who may have escaped a narcissistic ensnarement to utilise this information to build your Future Self because you ALWAYS remain at risk of attracting narcissists and if you have not been a Shelf Appliance in the past, there is a risk that this could happen to you.
Understand and remove the fog, build your Future Self and utilise this Logic Bulletin today
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