As in most things, communication is key to success. Good fortune in bed is no different talking is no less necessary than other modes of communication, although touching is probably the simplest and most profound way to connect with another human being.
The potential for variety adds to the possibility for satisfying results. If words don’t come easily to you, you can try other ways to make your point. Moving your partner’s hand to where you want it, slowly and gracefully, makes your point loud and clear. Simply moaning pleasantly usually gets a repeat performance of something you like.
Check out verbal, physical, and special ways to reinforce your partner when the passion is there, which begs a repeat performance.