Ever since the beginning of 2020, I have been dedicated to losing the fat that I semi-intentionally gained in my efforts to master “bulking up”.
As soon as I said good-bye to fast food, I very quickly realized that I needed to figure out how to cook. Quite frankly, unseasoned chicken and broccoli gets pretty boring, pretty fast.
So when I started to learn to cook, I learned that black pepper and garlic powder can really punch up a variety of foods I already was eating. So I was throwing garlic powder and black pepper on everything.
And you know what? It worked… my food tasted better than it used to and I was able to get the result I wanted without a lot of extra effort or time invested.
But after a short while, everything I ate tasted like some variation of pepper and garlic. I had one cooking strategy that worked, but it was only going to take me so far. And there were some foods that could be made much better with different seasonings that I hadn’t experimented with.
On the other hand, there were hundreds of options out there that I could try and frankly, I didn’t have the time or the patience to figure them all out. Moreover, I would flip out if I worked hard to make something only to end up destroying it by seasoning it wrong or putting on too much seasoning.
So I did the most intelligent thing I could think of: I turned to the internet. And once I was on the internet, I did the second most intelligent thing I could think of: I sought out people who were already great at doing what I wanted to be doing and studied their “recipes” for success.
(If anyone hasn’t recognized that this is a thinly-veiled metaphor for learning to dating / meet women better, then let me assure you that this is what it is…)
Now over the past 6-7 weeks, I have been investing a lot of time in the kitchen. I’ve been following the directions to the letter and cooking up some delicious foods. Every time I want to try something new or get some more variety in my diet, I know I can turn to the internet for exactly what I want.
An interesting thing has happened recently though… I have started to be able to add variations to recipes. That is, there were certain parts of recipes that I didn’t like (unnecessary fat added, too much sugar, unhealthy ingredients) and I was able to either remove them or replace them with something I do like. In other words, after experimenting and following the blueprint established by the experts, I was able to arrive at a point where I got the result I wanted (delicious food) without the elements that I didn’t want.
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Meanwhile, I have been tracking every calorie, vitamin, mineral and nutrient that goes into my body, every day. So I have been able to have great variety in my diet, lose fat and learn to cook well all at the same time, thanks to great record keeping, information gathering and taking action.
So what does all this have to do with seduction or picking up beautiful women?
Well, the way that I approached learning to cooking healthy was exactly the approaching I took to learning to be excellent at picking up women. The formula is this simple:
1) Have a clear objective
2) Keep excellent records of progress and measurements
3) Seek out single people who are successful in the area I want to be successful.
4) Seek out their blueprint for success (the steps they followed to get the result they wanted).
5) Follow the blueprint / roadmap described exactly.
6) Start with something small and manageable and master applying that technique, then move on to another technique.
7) Have a forum where I can ask questions and discuss setbacks, confusion or misunderstandings.
8) Once I’ve gotten the desired result, experiment with adding and removing elements to fit it to my tastes.
Now, with both seduction and cooking, some of the “recipes” that seemed the most outlandish or “not like me” turned out to be the most enlightening and helpful in my growth.
For example, I was really squeamish at first about experimenting with “push and pull” and teasing women since I didn’t want to be a jerk or an asshole. When I experimented with them, not only was I not a jerk or an asshole, but it had a massively positive effect on my ability to dating single women.
In terms of cooking, I didn’t think an apple, grape, banana, carrot and spinach smoothly would taste good, but it’s become my favorite smoothie of all time!
Anyway, this is all just Sunday-afternoon “food for thought” – I hope it helps.
P.S. In terms of helping with your own growth and development, Makati and I are always up to answering your questions. Feel free to join our seduction newsletter and respond to any of our messages with a question – we’ll get you an answer back as soon as we can. And don’t be afraid to ask what you really want to know – we’re not afraid to post up our raw thoughts and emotions here, so you shouldn’t have to worry about asking us something if it’s troubling you in the area of succeeding with single women from Makati. We’d love to help.
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